gomen me

Sorry for not returning the favors guys. Gomen me.
I swear I’ll find time to visit your bloggies too. Hopefully. *fingers cross*

HISTORY REPEATS ITSELF or YOU’RE THE ONE THAT MAKES HISTORY REPEAT ITSELF?
Any opinion?

When a guy gets drunk because of you, what would you feel?

When a guy tells you he will wait for you even if there’s no chance for the both of you to be committed, what would you do?

When a guy tells you that he loves you and you mutually feel the same way but you don’t wanted to be tied up with him, what will you do?

When a guy agreed that he wanted to be a “kabet” just for the sake of loving him, will you tolerate it?

When a guy begs for love, will you pity him?

So many questions. Ang hirap naman oh!

Honestly, I feel bad about myself. Every time I am single, there’s always a chance that a lot of guys will take the chance to have me. It’s complicated to handle most especially if you’re too keen not to let their feelings be hurt. But how? I can’t give them what they wanted and every time I try to do so, I end up thinking and realizing how mean I am to reject them and even to the most simplest way of showing my best-est (exaggeration) self to them, they just really can’t understand how hard it is to entertain guys who are skeptic enough not to care what a girl has to feel to be in dilemma because of them.

I know you’ll comment na. “Eh di ikaw na nga ang mahaba ang hair!” Duh? I’m not blabbing about this not because I’m proud of it! I’m blabbing this for other’s sake — for them to realize how hard it is to be in this kind of position or dilemma. *hmf*

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17 Comments to

“gomen me”

On August 18th, 2008 at 5:51 pm Kath Says:
I have an idea how it feels..
i’ve been there too, and really there’s nothing much we can do about it.. no matter how much we think of ways not to hurt people, eventually we will. it’s inevitable! Maybe we’ll just have to cross our fingers and hope that they don’t do anything stupid like hanging themselves to die. A lot of people hurt because of love, and it’s better to be forward than to let them think they have a chance when they really they don’t have.

Goodluck
On August 19th, 2008 at 5:57 am Lovelee Says:
hai!! ahmm… thanks for the comment and can i have a favor?? ahmm… just a simple favor.. can you ahmm.. write a blog entry about this blog http://prinsesa-ako.com i really want to win.. thankss! but don’t worry po i’m nit umaasa nmn po ehh..

BTW, ahmm.. yeah ate kath’s right “no matter how much we think of ways not to hurt people, eventually we will” well, thanks for droppin by to my blog.. ily!
On August 20th, 2008 at 12:52 pm Korina Says:
Awww. Sorry ate, I can`t give some advice and stuffs. Hehe. Walang experience. lol.

hmmm.. kung wala nmn po talaga ikwng nararamdaman or something.. say it! hehehe. don`t feel bad and guilty about it. Sadyang ganon lang ang buhay.. dun nmn sa ginagawa nila eh.. problema na nila yun! HAHAHA. churi ang nonsense q.. pero ganun yung naiisip ko Hehehe
On August 20th, 2008 at 1:39 pm Alyssa Says:
Thats really hard kasi hindi mo na alam kung ano ba yung dapat mong gawin. It happened to me before eh ayoko naman talaga dun sa guy so sinabi ko na agad kahit na nagpakalasing siya. mas marami lang masasaktan if papatagalin ko pa eh. ayoko rin naman na magpaasa diba. sana maayos mo yan sis
On August 20th, 2008 at 9:43 pm kate ^^ Says:
awww. the guy’s too desperate?! wag mo na lang intindihin.. i mean, di ba, anjan naman si raffy?
why let him even tangle your mind, or even just cross it?.. diba? XD
On August 21st, 2008 at 9:51 am Mariel Says:
Aww sis ang hirap tlgah niyan hehe lalo na kapag sasabhin niya na mgahihintay siya pero di naman pwede maging kayo.Hirap niyan hirap mag entertain thats why ayoko kasi mahirap mangbusted masakit yun para sa kanila.Goodluck sis xoxo!
On August 21st, 2008 at 11:54 am Joan Says:
hay nako lahat ng question wala akong nasagot!
mahirap kasi mang-busted ng tao lalo na pag alam mong masasaktan xa one way or the other pero dapat sa start pa lang, alam na nila kung pwede kang ligawan or hindi. para habang maaga maagapan na agad ang problema. hay nako! ang dali sabihin pero mahirap gawin lalo pag nanjan ka na sa mismong situation. basta sis always know what your heart’s telling you. you can never go wrong if you follow your heart’s desire.
On August 21st, 2008 at 7:39 pm bhebie Says:
I really don’t blame you. Those guys should know that they risk having themselves rejected–that relationships doesn’t always lead into marriage.

And as for you, you just gotta do what you do, you know? Like, how would you know who you wanna be with if you don’t give any guy a chance?

Don’t close yourself on any guy just because you’re afraid to hurt them. It’s just how it is. But of course, we women have the 6th sense. If you feel like the guy isn’t good for you, then you should be real and step up, tell them that you’re not into them. It’s better than feeling guilty later because you hurt them.
On August 22nd, 2008 at 1:42 am Karen Says:
that’s life anne. Mahirap din for us girls na mang reject. It’s not easy really. Ang hirap ng may nasasaktan tayo. Hayy.

teka, isa lang ha:

When a guy gets drunk because of you, what would you feel?
- Oh C’mon! Hahaha.. Stupidness.

Sorry not helping.
On August 22nd, 2008 at 12:26 pm WANITS Says:
Advice lang, kahit walang experience.

Saying the truth is the best. They should know that as a lover, they should face ANY reality, whatever it is, regardless if the reality wil hurt them or not. If ever, that you’ll not say it to them, lalo lang lalala ang situation since they maybe thinking na you’re falling for them too, and aasa sila ang so on. And if nalaman nila na hindi pala, lalo silang masasaktan. Pero kung sasabihin mo na ng maaga, at least may pag asa pang marelieve yung pain na nasa loob nila, right? And IF they really love you, they can understand your feelings and can let you go so they can make you more happy…

When a guy agreed that he wanted to be a “kabet” just for the sake of loving him, will you tolerate it?
- NO, kasi masama yun eh, DOING BAD THINGS for LOVE is not called as LOVE anymore, it’s hatred and desperation for what they really WANT.

hehehe~
On August 23rd, 2008 at 6:02 am Keiyt Says:
Simple don’t entertain them if you don’t want them to get hurt. If you do, it’s like giving them hope.
On August 24th, 2008 at 3:05 am joan Says:
i have been in that situation before hehe yeah it is really hard and sometimes even if you don’t want to, ikaw pa ung nagiging masama kung i-rereject mo ung isang guy - oh boy that is so tough especially for us girls
On August 24th, 2008 at 7:59 am Naomi Says:
Believe it or not, naexperience ko na din yan. Pero wala ako mabibigay na advice. Sorrryy.
On August 24th, 2008 at 9:00 am Maie Says:
Ganun talaga sis! Siguro many guys are running after you because ur beautiful, siguro madami ring naghihintay na mwala kayo nung ex bf mo kaya eto sila ngayon susulpt-sulpot! mahirap talaga maging babae, dahil we have to make a decision.. mhirap naman if you’ll give a chance to someone dhil you pity him.. goodluck nlang sis!
On August 24th, 2008 at 2:42 pm irish Says:
mahirap talaga pag ganean dmo naman alam kng matatouch ka sa ginagawa nea o maiinis baka kasi pakitang tao. sus. i feel m nalng na mahaba ang hair mo. aha ienjoy m nalang pagiging single
On August 26th, 2008 at 5:20 am Yvette Says:
I’ve been to that thing before. Madami na din akong na-reject. But I realized that I shouldn’t worry much. In the first place, sila nagkagusto sayo, so feel flattered. Its up to them kung ano consequence ng ginawa nila. They should accept it.
On August 29th, 2008 at 4:30 am Laarni Says:
Learn to say no, dear.